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What should I tell my Realtor?
For most people, especially first time buyers, the question of how much they should tell their real estate agent seems silly. The real estate agent is there to represent them and their needs and the more they know about what you can afford and what you can’t, the better job they will do. And in most cases, this is true, but you need to know exactly what kind of relationship you have with your real estate agent before you start to disclose personal financial information.
There are three different kinds of relationships you can have with your real estate agent. Let’s take a closer look at all three and we’ll see exactly what you should be saying to your agent and what you should be keeping to yourself.
You can hire your own real estate agent and have them work directly and only for you. This is the ideal situation because then you know that the real estate agent has nothing whatsoever to do with the seller and only cares about your financial interest and what is best for you. In this kind of situation, you can be completely open and honest about your concerns and your limitations financially. A downside to this choice, however, is that you will have to pay any and all commissions to the agent or broker.
A similar situation is when the real estate agent represents the seller exclusively. Again, this is good for the buyer since you know that you won’t have to be dealing with the same agent and watching what you say constantly because you don’t know if the agent is breaking the law by giving your personal financial information to the seller so that they have a negotiating advantage.
The most common set up is that the same broker represents both clients. In this case, the seller is the one who pays the commission, so some buyers can feel more than a little uncomfortable that the main concern of the broker is the sellers needs and not the buyers. There can be real trust problems with this set up since the buyer will feel like a second-class citizen. This set-up is called duel-agency and it is the most common method of selling a home. There are laws I place to help protect the buyer and the seller, alike. If an agent lets slip a piece of information, say, that the seller is very motivated because of a recent split with his wife and just wants to sell the home as soon as possible and he’ll probably take an offer that’s $10,000 under the asking price, the agent has just broken the law. The only time that this is allowed is if the seller has signed a legal document allowing this information to be shared with the buyer.
Of course this sharing of information would have to be caught and reported for any kind of prosecution to take place, which is why it can be almost impossible for agents who work for the same broker to get caught.
So, which decision should you make?
For those on a tight budget, it would be smart to go with the traditional duel-agency style, and simply watch what sort of personal information you share with your agent. Your real estate agent isn’t your accountant or your psychologist, so you don’t need to share every aspect of your life with them. On the other hand, if you can afford to pay your own brokers fees out of your own pocket, you might be better off with your own broker who you can be honest with about any limitations you have financially, or if you have fallen in love with a particular property, you can be honest about that too.
Knowing how open and honest you can be with your realtor is a pretty big deal. They are your lifeline through what can be a very confusing and expensive home buying process. But if you and the seller are using the same broker, watch what you say because you never know who is listening. If you can afford your own broker, it might be smart to simply take the financial hit and hire your own. GBrey |